Remember these before saying 'I Love You'- propose your boy/girlfriend

Are you thinking of proposing your boy/girlfriend this Valentine or have done in the past but been rejected? If so, in this post I am going to tell you important points should remember before saying 'I Love You'.

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'There are so many ways to say I Love You but there is no word in the world to say how much I love you!'

We don't know with whom, when or where we fall in love. In some case both preson fall in love- both like each other from the beginning of their relation and in other cases one person only like other initially i.e. one sided love. In both, many lover's main problem becomes how to say ' I love you', what if his/her propose get rejected. Such confusion may remain in some person for months. I will also let you know why this happens at the end of this article.

Almost we all hope our relationship should last throughout our life. Here I also don't want to say there is necessary to be marriage after love life. It is important to know some points before proposing. Let me start:

It is important to know whether you really love the preson you are going to propose. This may sound unnecessary for some. But, this is very effective way to decide whether your relation lasts throughout the life or not. Make sure yourself that you really love him/her.

Another thing you should remember is to know whether s/he understands your feelings or not. Understanding each others feelings, thinkings is vrey important for good relationship.

No one posses all skills, talents human being have. There may be some faults or weaknesses in person you love. Are you still ready to adopt him/her?

Are you ready for long relationship?

You can make good relationship with the person you are going to propose by doing these things:

Communicate with him/her openly and positively.

Go to restaurant, cafe and have tea or coffee but pay him/her bill yourself( especially recommended for boys).

It is better to give him/her some gifts.

This helps to make good feeling of you in your lover and creates a romantic, lovely environment and there is less possibility of your propose being get rejected in such situation.

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How to say' I Love you'?

When you are going to propose, do it directly i.e. say directly I Love you. Twisting what you are going to say may create confusion.

Do not take very long time to propose. You may have to regret later.

Due to development of technologies, one trend we can see these days is to propose by phone or message. But this is not better idea. Propose the person you like being face to face.

Propose with interesting gifts, bouquet or greeting cards. This helps to create good impression of you in him/her.

Say your feelings, beliefs and thinking clearly.

Forget the fear of your propose being rejected. Propose with confidence.

Propose only at the right time. If person you are going to propose is in problem, help him/her to solve the problem. This is sure to create good feeling of you in him/her.

If s/he asks for some time to think about your propose, give him/her time.

If your propose get rejected, do not force him/her to accept with any physical action. This may create even more problem. If both you were good friends before, still maintain that friendship after rejection. Do not hesitate to take your rejected letter.